Since his birthday happily fell on a Saturday this year, we invited some friends over to celebrate his big day.
I can't believe he's one already. My little man is growing up!
A friend once told me that mothers have different relationships with their sons than with their daughters. Another mom told me she feels differently towards her baby boy, because she knows one day he'll grow up and away from her. I haven't really felt either of these things -- intellectually I know them, but the reality hasn't sunk in yet. Maybe I'm in denial that my precious little baby will ever grow away from me. What does wake me up at night in a cold sweat is the idea that I'm responsible for raising a man. There are a lot of forces in the world conspiring against him, and it's up to me and his father to strengthen him against them. It's thoughts like this that make me realize there's no way I can do it on my own power -- we need Divine assistance to help him grow to be the person he was created to be. But for now, I'm just loving him as much as I can while I have him.
I've often thought that one advantage Our Lady had was that she could legitimately worship her son, while for the rest of us sometimes it's a temptation that we have to resist (especially when they're being incredibly cute!)
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday, Joseph!
As for raising your son to be a man, the best way to do it is by your and your husband's example. Your relationship to God and to each other, and how you live your lives and vocations, will teach him more than anything else could about faith, honor, integrity, respect, courage, humility and all those other manly virtues. (How's that for pressure?)
ReplyDeleteAnd have him read LOTS of stories about boys and men doing brave and chivalrous things!
(Don't worry, you'll do fine. Follow your instincts.)