Sunday, October 30, 2011

Quick Takes

I'm beginning to despair of ever getting this family log updated.  I have three-- no, four drafts in the queue, waiting for me to make the time to finish editing them.  (the curse of being a perfectionist!  every word must be carefully weighed!  is there a better way to say that?  must proofread!  too wordy -- delete delete!)  (this is why I was always a better research paper writer than essay test taker.)

But stuff has been going on, and I don't want to forget about them before I finally have a chance to write about them.  I also want to prove to you all that we're not dead.


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Mr. Pickles and I went to see Les Miserables at the Kennedy Center this week.  To a 1:30 show.  On a Wednesday.  All the weekends were booked solid by the time we started looking at tickets.  A dear friend in our baby sitting co-op bent over backwards to watch all our kids so we could go.  The last time we saw Les Miz was before we were married -- Mr. Pickles took me to see it in DC and I was so impressed that he was willing to spend so much money on me!  The show was great -- the singing was A-MAZ-ING -- the staging was fairly simple but interesting -- the final scene was heart-wrenching and inspiring... and the sound was L.O.U.D.  I think everyone was miked, and they had the speakers set to "bleeding ears."  It was like watching a movie at the loud theater, only louder.  Our ears were ringing afterwards.  But we had awesome seats!  Orchestra level at the Kennedy Center is the way to go.  That's a tip, kids; write it down.

It was fun getting all dressed up in the middle of the day.  But then we had to pick the kids up and bring them home and change out of our lovely raiment to feed them... back to the humdrum.  After Mr. Pickles makes his first million I'm going to get season tickets. :)  (Sigh, I miss student prices for Pittsburgh shows!)

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My second-worst fears as a housewife have been realized: it seems that Mr.Pickles has a sensitivity to wheat.  (The worst fear is that we'll have lice. Or bedbugs. They're equally terrifying.)  Whenever he eats white flour, it makes him feel ill.  It's such a staple in my meal planning that I've been hard pressed to find alternatives for him.  I have to say, though, that it hasn't been as involved as I thought it would.  He pretty much takes care of his own breakfast and lunch each day (yes, I know, I am a neglectful wife).  And for dinner I've been making things with the wheat component separate.  For example tonight we had chicken and broccoli in white sauce over pasta -- but for Mr. Pickles I made rice (it was supposed to be rice pasta but the grocery delivery man forgot a bag on the truck, thanks a lot, PeaPod).  Last night it was fried sausage & potatoes (no wheat at all), and the night before it was chili with cornbread on the side.  Tomorrow we'll have bean soup with rolls on the side.  The only meals I won't be able to make are things like pot pies, a couple casserole dishes with biscuit dough baked on top (unless I separate a serving of the filling before adding the dough, which I have also done), or baked pasta.  So it's not the end of my career of cooking with simplicity.  But man, that gluten free stuff is going to break the bank.

All is not lost, however -- it turns out that he is only really sensitive to white flour.  Whole wheat doesn't seem to bother him.  I'll need to try to experiment with that white-wheat flour to see if I can make bread that doesn't weigh as much as a brick.

Oh, and he might have a parasite.  Fun times!

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In other food and budget-breaking news, we're already spending more on groceries b/c we're trying to eat real food type things and avoid stuff like high-fructose corn syrup, hydrogenated oils, and nitrites.  It's not until you start reading labels that you realize how pervasive those things are.  Real food is hard to find, especially convenience foods.  However!  There is a good side -- we have found some really delicious things this way.  We found a brand of root beer that uses sugar instead of corn syrup, and oh, my, it's worth the $1 a bottle!  It tastes like real live actual Root Beer -- you know, like homemade soda made out of real sassafras and brewed in your best friend's basement, or something equally awesome.  And the only ice cream we've been able to find is, I think, Dreyers -- again, it tastes like Real Food.  This is the reason we try to make our own bread, and yogurt, and jam.  For one thing, you know exactly what you're putting into it.  And for another, once you've tasted homemade it's so hard to go back to store bought -- it just tastes fake after you've had the real thing.

The next step we're contemplating is getting a freezer chest so we can buy a half a hog, or a quarter of beef, or some other obscene amount of real meat from healthy animals that actually get to see the sun and walk on real ground and eat real food themselves.  There are several nearby organic farms out here -- a lot of our friends will split the costs for large amounts of meat, butter, eggs, and the like.  I'd even like to buy a share in a cow so we could get fresh milk, much to the horror of my mother.  But I've tasted some at friends' houses, and my oh my, it is SO good.  I'm just happy we're in a place now financially that we can consider all this.  Yes, it is harder trying to stick to a budget this way -- I have to sacrifice a lot of convenience foods and make more things from scratch to save money (although we can't seem to wean ourselves off of crackers for the kids -- there are some things I'm willing to let slide).  It takes time, but all in all the gain in health and flavor makes it worth it.  I think the smell of the house when I'm making bread is worth a million times the inconvenience!

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We've been shopping for new carpet for the basement.  I will be so happy when we get that living space back again.  I didn't realize just how much I had come to depend on it until I tried doing school all on one level.  It's so hard -- I can't do any reading with the girls unless at least one of the boys is asleep.  Otherwise the boys spend all their time running around and yelling at each other, because they don't have anything else to do (and it's fun).  They just get bored living in one room.  But when we were doing schoolwork in the basement, they had shelves of toys to keep them busy, and if one of the girls was getting distracted by them I could send her upstairs to the dining table for a few minutes to complete her assignment.  I'm hoping our days will run more smoothly when we have all our living spaces put back to rights.

Aside from providing a fully functional basement, the new carpet itself isn't too exciting -- it's pretty similar to what we had before.  What IS exciting is that we decided to go ahead and get new flooring in the dining room AND kitchen too!  I KNOW!  We are just crazy party animals here.  We had been talking about burni replacing the carpet in the dining room for several months now.  Who -- WHO! -- in their right mind puts beige carpet in a dining room??  (And who in their right mind lets their children -- especially babies in high chairs -- eat food in a dining room with beige carpet??)  So our carpet, formerly known as beige, was untouched by the steam cleaning I gave it... whenever ago it was that I cleaned it.  It had gotten to the point where I cringed every time one of the children lay down on it to play.  So, you get the picture -- it's time for it to go.  We are replacing the carpet and the kitchen sticky-onny tiles with wood, yay!  No, not the real kind -- the "composite material with a sticker," as the salesman calls laminate flooring.  But it should look pretty long enough for us to enjoy it and then move out and let the next owners deal with replacing it. :)  And look pretty it will!  I can't wait to have a floor that can (in theory) be cleaned after every meal.  At least, easily cleanable.  I have two sources of cheap labor now -- I think it's about time for Katie to be introduced to Mrs. Swiffer!

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Finally, costume season hath arrived!  The last couple days I've been sewing up a storm because, me being me, I waited until the last possible second to start working on the kids' costumes.  (Really.  I figured out -- subconsciously actually -- how much time I would need to sew the things I needed to sew, and started working on them when I knew I absolutely couldn't wait another minute or they wouldn't get done in time.)  Once again, I made the kids pick two-fers -- the costume they wanted had to work for both trick or treating and our homeschool group's  All Saints party.  Katie got around that by using last year's costume, with a couple amendments, to represent a new saint this year.  And Daniel is big enough that he could use Jojo's from last year.  But still, four children times two occasions means eight separate ensembles with accessories to think about, plan, and purchase!  Fortunately I still love all that stuff -- I just wish I had occasion to dress up too!  (Kids get all the fun. *pout*)  I'll save all the rest of the details for another post, when I have more pictures.

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So, you see?  Not dead.  Just handling life with lots of people, a few minor emergencies, and not quite enough energy to stay on top of everything!

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Miriam's Holey Ears (more wedding)

So as I pointed out earlier, Miriam now has holes in her ears!  Edy's mom and I discussed the matter beforehand, and since both the girls had been begging for pierced ears for a while, we decided it would be super fun to surprise them with a joint trip to Claire's for Aunt Katie's wedding!

We arrived in Steubenville Thursday before the wedding, so the next morning I told Miriam what we had planned to do. She was SO jazzed! Another little cousin (secret code name "Little") who was going to be the flower girl, decided she wanted to join the party, too, so Friday morning we all met up at the mall. We were quite a group -- 3 girls, their moms, MY mom, and Aunt Carlin (my mom's sister-in-law)!

Miriam was the only brave soul who was willing to go first. :)

snuggling with the Claire bear, all excited and nervous!

"Little" was so brave -- she was only six, but she did really well, and held the tears in after the first punch. "No pirates!" Aunt Carlin said -- once you do one, you've got to go through with the other!

yay!  so sparkly!

The lady who did the piercing was wonderful. She lied through her teeth -- she told the girls she was using a numbing solution to wipe their ears (it was just alcohol), and then she would pretend to pinch their earlobes and ask if they could feel it. She even had me convinced -- until I saw her fake pinching, the cheater. Well, howsome'er it was, it certainly helped Miriam endure it. I'm still deciding whether or not to tell her. :)

Aunt Katie was privy to the secret, so for her gift to the girls at the rehearsal dinner she gave them sparkly jewelry -- including new earrings!


Six weeks later (to the day) we took out the studs and Miriam tried on every single pair of earrings she has.

Since then there has been daily drama involved with taking them out or putting them in (after all, she is a nine year old girl), including a scary brush with infection, but all in all she's enjoying her new bling, and we're trying not to regret letting her have them. :)

Monday, October 03, 2011

When Irish Eyes Are Smiling

...it's usually because they're up to no good.  (at least in our family)

what?  I'm just here, yep, just the baby, being cute...

just gotta climb...  shoot!  she noticed!

uhh, nope, not climbing the table, nuh-uh, I was just--  uhh, stretching, yeah, that's it...

okay, now I'm only up here so I can look out the window, yeah, that's it...

what!?  how dare you malign my character!  I am insulted!  I am outraged!

...I need a nap.

Saturday, October 01, 2011

Katie's Wedding

So! The big wedding! This was something we'd all been looking forward to for a while -- although as I said before, it seemed surreal. How is it that Katie and Stefan are old enough to get married? They're mere babes! (never mind the fact that they're barely a year younger than Mr. Pickles and I were when WE got married...)

It's a beautiful thing watching someone grow, and mature, and blossom into a person with integrity and a beautiful soul. I am 12 years older than Katie -- I remember the summer right before she was born, when her whole family flew out from Ohio to vacation in California. I remember Aunt Terri's bulging belly, full of the life that would become this beautiful woman.

Katie turned 6 soon after I arrived in her hometown as a college freshman. Her family gathered me in and loved me and made sure I didn't miss home too much.
this is the best picture I have of walking down the aisle -- the others from the wedding day were all blurry :(

I got to watch her grow through some fun years. I remember how cranky she was because she wouldn't take a nap on the car trip we took to Niagara falls my freshman year. A couple years later I attended her first Holy Communion. She asked me to be her sponsor for Confirmation. When I graduated she was 9. She was a junior bridesmaid in my wedding, and present when my first-born was baptized. We were there when she went to senior prom, and again for her high school graduation.
presentation of the icons -- a Ukrainian tradition

It wasn't until last summer, when she lived with us, that I got to know her as an adult. But I've been privileged to watch her grow from a little tyke with pigtails and who loved pwincesses, who endured the razzing of 3 older brothers (who I'm sure are gagging over most of this post, if they bother to read it at all) and regularly had her little feelings hurt, to someone who has grown into a sweet, understanding, capable and generous woman. I think she is much more mature and empathetic than I was 12 years ago. :)
astounded by Aunt Terri's traditional beautiful wedding embroidery (the one she made for us is still enthroned next to our front door!)

All this goes to say that I love her like the little sister I'd always wanted. So what a privilege it was to be able to share in one of the happiest and grace-filled days of her life!
leaving for the church!  they live just a few doors down from their parish -- Katie said she'd always dreamed of walking down the street to get married in her home parish!
Queen of the Day and her entourage
I can't tell what I love more about this -- Uncle Jim's tender kiss to his baby girl, or the look of unbridled joy on Stefan's face!
 Because Stefan comes from the Ukrainian Rite, there were many Ukrainian touches added to the wedding.  Katie is Roman Rite, so the Wedding Mass itself was western, but Katie and Stefan were basically married twice -- once with the Roman exchange of vows, and again with a Ukrainian priest marrying them in the eastern tradition.   As her brother Phil (who's been married 11 years) said, "Hey, I only feel half married!"
being crowned King and Queen (that's the gorgeous head of Nana in the foreground -- the materfamilias watching her youngest granddaughter getting married!)
The Ukrainian traditions added a lot of richness to the ceremony.  At one point half of the congregation (the Ukrainian side) :) began singing in Ukrainian a song of blessing for the newly married couple.  It was so touching!  It truly was just a beautiful wedding.

awwww...

What a great-looking family.  Good job, Aunt Terri and Uncle Jim!